Dr. Margaret Paul - Ph.D. Psychology

Bestselling author, relationship expert, and co-creator of the powerful Inner Bonding self-healing process

About Me

Overview Dr. Paul is the author/co-author of several best-selling books, including Do I Have To Give Up Me to Be Loved By You?, Inner Bonding, Healing Your Aloneness, The Healing Your Aloneness Workbook, Do I Have To Give Up Me to Be Loved By My Kids?, and Do I Have To Give Up Me To Be Loved By God? Dr. Paulâ€™s books have been distributed around the world and have been translated into eleven languages.

Margaret holds a PhD in psychology and is a relationship expert, noted public speaker, workshop leader, educator, chaplain, consultant and artist. She has appeared on many radio and TV shows, including the Oprah show. She has successfully worked with thousands of individuals, couples and business relationships and taught classes and seminars since 1967.

Margaret continues to work with individuals and couples throughout the world â€” mostly on the phone. She is able to access spiritual Guidance during her sessions, which enables her to work with people wherever they are in the world. Her current passion is working on and developing content for this Website, as well as distributing SelfQuestÂ®, the software program that teaches Inner BondingÂ® and is donated to prisons and schools, as well as sold to the general public.

Margaret is passionate about helping people rapidly heal the root cause of their pain and learn the path to joy and loving relationships.

In her spare time, Margaret loves to paint, make pottery, take photos, watch birds, read, ride horses, and spend time with her grandchildren.
Qualifications Ph.D. Psychology
What I Do Bestselling author, relationship expert, and co-creator of the powerful Inner Bonding self-healing process
Areas I specialise in Healing anxiety, depression, addictions and failed relationships.
How my work helps people Have you tried everything to feel good about yourself but you still experience feelings of unworthiness and inadequacy? Inner Bonding is a powerful psychological and spiritual process for healing anxiety, depression, addictions and failed relationships. Inner Bonding heals the pervasive pattern of self-abandonment/shame that is the underlying cause of these issues. Are you tired of failed relationships and jobs that don't fulfill your dreams, or are problems with spouses, partners, friends, family or co-workers causing you stress? Inner Bonding shows you how to love yourself, even through challenging times, so you can truly experience love with those closest to you. Do you turn to various addictions because you don't know any other way of managing your painful feelings? Inner Bonding enables you to lovingly manage all painful feelings without turning to addictions.
What I can help with Inner bonding can help you to heal your pain and allow you to feel the freedom and joy of learning to love yourself and share your love with others.

Personal Information

Country United States
Gender Female

Testimonials

Testimonials Inner Bonding has helped me to evolve in my courage to love... ~ Alanis Morissette

Dr. Margaret Paul wrote a new blog entry: Admin 05 January 2021 at 11:35 PM

How to Define Your True Self-Worth

Marilyn asked in one of my webinars:
Do you believe your self-worth is in your looks and performance? If you do, is this working for you and bringing you joy?
“I’ve noticed there are times I define my worth in a negative way. For example, if...

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Dr. Margaret Paul wrote a new blog entry: Admin 01 January 2021 at 09:50 AM

The One New Year's Resolution I Hope You Make and Keep

This one New Year’s resolution can change your life, heal your relationships, create health and well-being, and heal our planet.
One of the most important aspects of Inner Bonding is opening to a compassionate intention to learn. I think a lot abou...

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Dr. Margaret Paul wrote a new blog entry: Admin 25 November 2020 at 11:53 PM

Why am I Struggling After All My Healing?

Do you believe that, because you may have already done a lot of healing work, your relationship should be easier?

I can’t tell you how often I hear from my clients that “I should be further along in my healing process,” esp...

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- Pamela Pham November 30, 2020 Thanks, Dr. Margaret! I agree that everyone has different love languages that makes them feel special, but it does always come down to self-love to create self worth.
Dr. Margaret Paul wrote a new blog entry: Admin 25 November 2020 at 11:47 PM

Caretaking Others Prevents You From Knowing Yourself

Is your addiction to caretaking stopping you from knowing yourself?
“I have had to parent my whole life, never really able to be a kid from my childlike mother to my son-like husband. Everything seems to depend on me doing the right thing and stayi...

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Dr. Margaret Paul wrote a new blog entry: Admin 25 November 2020 at 05:55 AM

Can We Ever Heal From Childhood Abuse?

Will you always be struggling with the effects of an abusive childhood?
If you had an abusive childhood, will you always suffer from it? This is the question that Andrea asked me about:
“I had a terrifying childhood. I have had counselin...

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Dr. Margaret Paul wrote a new blog entry: Admin 24 November 2020 at 11:25 PM

When it's Loving for You to Control and When it's Not

Discover when controlling opens your heart and when it closes you down and blocks your connection with your spiritual guidance.
The kind of control that actually blocks our ability to access spirit is when we try to control what we can’t control su...

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Dr. Margaret Paul wrote a new blog entry: Admin 23 November 2020 at 09:51 PM

Does Another's Wounded Self Trigger Your Wounded Self?

Do you disconnect in the face of others’ disconnection? Do you get angry in the face of others’ anger? Discover how to stay connected with yourself.
Jenna was angry that she kept getting triggered into her wounded self when her husband, Seth,...

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Dr. Margaret Paul wrote a new blog entry: Admin 23 November 2020 at 11:49 AM

Are You Resistant to Loving Yourself?

Do you want to love your inner child when you are in pain, or do you reject and abandon yourself in the face of your painful feelings?
Lauren, a client of mine, has been practicing Inner Bonding for a number of years but she was still resistant to taking...

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- Pamela Pham November 24, 2020 Great blog! I will definitely use this advice on myself and those around me during difficult times.
- Christian Brown November 25, 2020 This is great, very well written!
Dr. Margaret Paul wrote a new blog entry: Admin 21 November 2020 at 08:32 AM

You CAN Heal The Wounds of Abusive Parenting

The outlook doesn’t have to be bleak for those of us who had abusive or neglectful parenting.
“There are clear links between an individual’s psychological coping strategies and his or her physiological coping strategies. Both are establ...

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Dr. Margaret Paul wrote a new blog entry: Admin 21 November 2020 at 12:58 AM

Healing the Lack of Loving, Holding and Touch

If you were not lovingly held as a baby or toddler, you may need to do some healing work in this area.
Were you deprived of comforting holding as a child? I was. I was held by my mother, but the energy of her touch was so needy and engulfing that I hated...

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- Pamela Pham November 23, 2020 Thanks, Dr. Margaret. I also agree that we do all need the comfort of each other at least once in a while.